No answers if that's why you clicked the tread ;-) My wife suffers from depression. She is well aware that she has it, but it seems every issue she has in life is my fault. It's really hard not to take it personally sometimes. She says she doesn't know how this marriage is going to work, she complains about the good things I do, the bad things I do. We're in counseling and even then it seems like it's all about how I can do things differently. I love my wife and my 3 year old son is the best thing in the entire world. But it's tough sometimes. Really tough. Anyone been through something similar and have any words of wisdom?