I dislike the sound of my own voice a lot and because of the sound of it, it has caused me to either 1) alter the way in which I sing physically, which is usually not my preferred method, 2) not sing the music I enjoy, or 3) learn to live with it and make the most of it. I choose #3, but I am never satisfied EVER with what I hear. It is a tone thing, as my voice is raspy, yet a tenor voice. Phrasing is not so much the issue, as that is something that I work on. The reason I detest it is that it reminds me of a few singers whose voices I can't stand to listen to. This is painful to me. What are your thoughts on this? It was told to me that Marvin Gaye disliked his own voice. I would sound like a Soul or R&B singer.