So I'm putting the pieces together for my upcoming partsocaster (first one)... I mostly play the blues, rock, psych, etc styles of music and while I can play softly I tend to fret heavy handed a lot of the time. Knowing that...I'm trying find out which fret size might be for me. Are there any hard and fast rules when picking out frets in regards to the 'white knuckle'/heavy fretting type of playing? I'd like to avoid sharps/flats as much as possible. I've had medium jumbos (6150s) before but haven't played on a 6105. Any thoughts?