There is the added benefit that you may be able to salvage some friendships by gracefully bowing out and just saying you want to focus on some other things in life. Ya know, you can be totally cool about it and who knows you may do a gig with them here and there down the roadi think your right ....its such a pain starting over
It’s pretty much impossible to do anything these days without catching flak or the ire of some.That was a very keen observation and fair comment .I talk‘texted the post which is inexcusable.
I will correct it and it will not happen again .
I try to stick with this too.I have learned (finally!) to just go, play, and smile, no matter what the situation brings.
That way, no matter what may happen, I'm not going to be the source of any band drama.
Imho, it just isn't worth the hassle. I'd rather just play.
I try to stick with this too.
I am really and amateur sideman. I don't sing. I shouldn't be picking the songs. I shouldn't make stage or personnel decisions. I show up ready to play and take direction.