In the ten years we've been together, life has thrown us som fairly serious ****. Admittedly you could call them first world problems, but here's what works: We laugh a lot We share a love of music We share a great kid We are both convinced we married up (I know I did) More than anything, we want the other to be happy. Just the other day she saw a '73 goldtop Les Paul like I played in high school and encouraged me to go get it. We're far from rich, but she knew what it meant to me and how many years ago I made a difficult career choice and sold mine to pay college tuition. I'm a fortunate son.