At some point you should check out the following....
Any Paul Gilbert vids.
Any Shawn Lane Vids.
Any Rusty Cooley vids.
Any Scott Henderson vids.
Any Allan Holdsworth vids.
I mention Shawn Lane because I think he shredded with more soul, I mention Scott Henderson because I think he is one of the best blues/jazz/rock/fusion guys out there right now and Holdsworth because......well, just because.
I also think you should watch Stevie Ray "Live at the El Mocambo" at least once, all the way through.
Good luck...
Chris
PS There's a LOT more guitarists that can go on that list but those are my favs.