QFT!
Yeah - this. Am I understanding correctly OP, that you have a quad cortex? If that is correct, suck it up, realize that you live in an apartment with neighbors, confine your playing there to headphones, and go buy a really good pair of them.
Otherwise, since you’re not paying for rent, if you want great amp tone, get a nice amp and go rent a practice space. Sheesh.
Some of us don’t have high end guitars OR amps because we are paying for our housing.
Why don’t you try to soundproof a room?
I run all my pedals into an iridium/headphones at home (apartment). I think the 3-400 USD "amp in a box" range has a ton of great options. I have nice guitars and nice pedals and they sound very good at home through headphones. I think the tone is very good. Have a silverface twin at the practice spot and just bypass the iridium and go into the twin.