Nice comparison. Both pedals sound very good. I love my Small Fry. I mostly use it with gain settings around half-way, so this was a nice reminder what a great rock thing it can do with the gain cranked.
I tend to prefer the Barber Direct Drive for Strat stuff and the Small Fry for Tele and humbucker tones, but the neck pickup stuff sounds great in your video.
Not familiar with the Tone Monk stuff--will have to check it out.
funny thing is i have always used the small fry for a rocked up fusion tone, with the dynamics knob 1/2 way up.
On the tone monk tour box they said to put their pedals up against the competition & try & dial them the same.
both really gr8 pedals imo