She's awesome through and through but there is one quality that bothers me like no other that unfortunately bleeds onto every aspect of our lives ; she's not observant at all. Because of this, she'll throw stuff into the dishwasher haphazardly, leave every light on, not notice food going bad in the fridge, not realize consequences that are about to happen (such as picking up an item that has something on top - that thing will fall on the ground), etc. There are just so many different shades of how unobservant she can be that I could name examples of this 'til the cows come home. It can oftentimes be amusing but occasionally irritating and even frustrating as I have to pick up after her or close everything. I hear things fall on the floor a handful of times a day on hardwood floors. Years of this will sometimes make one sigh. lol! Anybody else struggle with a great spouse who just can't seem to notice things or see what will happen before they do it?