So I just got a text from a member of the band saying "Hey dude. ***** ***** is going to come out to practice tomorrow, bring his gear. Going to play w us; see if we play well together. Just to see how it goes." He had texted us a couple of weeks ago about this guy "maybe" (my words) being interested in playing with us, but we discussed it (very briefly) at practice and dropped it. We didn't make a decision. We didnt decide AS A BAND to audition anyone. I had my concerns, echoed by others in the band, about adding a member to the band to begin with, as discussed in this thread: http://www.thegearpage.net/board/showthread.php?t=1557085&highlight=new+band+member .....but, that aside, Im a bit miffed that I wasnt in the decision making process about bringing someone in to practice with us "just to see how it goes." Should I be miffed? Am I being too sensitive? Im not good at hiding my feelings, and I think it will be apparant at practice that Im not liking it, or at least the way it happened. I dont even know how to respond to his text. My first thought is to text back "I wish we had discussed this as a band"......does that seem rude? Thoughts?