Silver Supporting Member
Stop being anti-social & just go talk to the neighbor. Ask her about the volume & times-of-day when you might be able to play. Be polite, be apologetic about the volume.
This is the right thing to do. Though in principle I feel like she needs to come talk to me since banging on a wall is not a civilized way to express yourself. I’m happy to work out a compromise if she likes but if I’m not breaking any laws then I’m going to enjoy the short time I have during the day to play my geetar. I can keep it below 80 dB which is reasonable.