Why am I dtill a virgin at 24?

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  1. Tampitump

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    I started to get the idea that girls didn't want anything to do with in like kindergarten. I never had a girfriend in highschool and still never have. Never went to prom, dances, etc. no girls would give me the time of day. So my daily routine has never consisted of talking to or engagin in things involving women.

    All my friends get women left and right. Every other guy I've ever met gets wrapped up in them or at least has one or more of them that they're talking to at any given point. I've tried every method under the sun. Women don't take me seriously. Then again, people in general don't take me seriously. I honestly believe that if I was the last man alive, a sexually desperate woman would do without before she'd choose me. I've given up conpletely. Even the slightest hint or gesture of interest from a woman from now on will be taken as an insult.

    Ok, rant over. Smart-ass/know-it-all comments below.
     
  2. whackystrings

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    I was a 24yr old virgin. Was a rough state of mind to be in.
    Hang in there, kid.
     
  3. snarkle

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    Let's just say that honesty is not always the best policy...
     
  4. Tampitump

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    Oh, I'm done. I'll be a virgin until death (by choice). When you've been denied and treated poorly over something you've wanted forever, and constantly had it rubbed in your face, you stop wanting it after a while. Nope its too late I don't want it now.
     
  5. CowTipton

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    Be more direct about your intentions.

    Then be more serious.
    Be up front about it and tell the girl you think she's hot and you'd like to get to know her better.

    It may not be in your nature to be so direct but you can train yourself to do it.
    Be bold.
     
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    I don't know where you're at, Tamp. But, I would recommend a prostitute. I'm sure you'd make her day! If youve never had the sex, you'll have plenty of time left to ask her for advice on how to get chicks. In my experience, most are just regular people and would absolutely love to turn a dud into a stud. Seriously.

    And, last but not least. A line from one of my favorite movies. " you have to stop putting the p>\|y on a pedestal"!
     
  7. Tampitump

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    Even a prostitute wouldn't do me.
     
  8. Tampitump

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    Like I said before, I'm done. I'll never ask a woman for a single GD thing.
     
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    Yes, society in general is SO much better off by believing that the pursuit and attainment of losing virginity/F-ing your brains out come hither with as many people as possible as much as possible, is "right" and worthy of respect. That pursuit actually has cred/value in society.

    IMO, average society fails there. Terribly.

    Stop worrying about it and grow on the inside.
     
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    While this is all nebulous and vague and well-meaning, there really is something to putting your energies into something that you really enjoy and that it is a social thing.
    The self-loathing BS really has to stop and I mean that in the most positive way. I am not calling you out for target practice...I am trying to help.
    Maybe you are frustrated now and you are swearing off women. Sure. Got it.

    Be the guy that women would want to know. Try traveling. I went to stay in hostels throughout the UK when I was 23 to sightsee and visit long-lost relatives and it really boosted my confidence to be around pairs and single women traveling. Share a meal. Go out sightseeing together. Those casual encounters shouldn't really be goal-oriented except to interact...ladies can smell desperation 10miles away. Seriously. If you have no agenda except genuine human interest then they get to see the real you.

    I would rather be attractive to women that value more of a worldly view. Try to determine what kind of women you would like to attract.
    If your answer is 'horny' yet you have no game, look into your local monastery or prepare to shell out for some temporary companionship. I hear Amsterdam is nice.
     
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    Come to Austin, I'll get you laid. Unless you're one of those guys that needs to be moved around with a pallet jack because you weigh 800 pounds, even then I could get you a woman. It's all in your head and it's a easy problem to fix if you truly want it fixed.
     
  12. wstsidela

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    Go to Vegas, kid. You'll meet lots of interesting & willing woman around 10pm at almost any casino bar.
     
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    Women love confidence. That's not the same thing as arrogance (a lesson many men never learn).

    The vibe you're putting out here is the opposite of confidence.
     
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    I really don't give a horse's ass what women like or how to attract them. Ship long sailed. My question more retrospective. I'm not asking how can I get women. I'm asking why was I never good enough?
     
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    Well I'm 14 years older than you and I too am still a virign.
     
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    wstsidela I'm bonafied Gold Supporting Member

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    You're not dead yet. Another girl will come along. They always do.
     
  17. Tampitump

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    Have you given up yet?
     
  18. Tampitump

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    Another girl? There was no original girl.
     
  19. ademus

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    Since you asked. It's cause you're a mope. I know because I was one. Went ten years without a piece of ass. I do not recommend this!

    If you are seriously giving up trying to get laid. Seek help! I love a good masturbatory session but man, there is nothing like a woman's touch. I would seek psychological counseling if this isn't a joke.
     
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    Did you ever watch some male bird attract a female by puffing up the red thing on his neck while twitching spasmoically? Yeah, the whole thing is really that superficial and stupid. Humans are a bit more complicated, but it still comes down to the puffing up. It has nothing to do with your true worth or even your suitability as a mate. Don't make the mistake of attaching much meaning to it.
     
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