My wife's friend from work came along with us on a recent trip to Thailand. My wife thought it would be fine. We didn't know much about her except that she liked to experience new things and cultures so we figured why not. Turns out I didn't care for her very much but my wife has to work with her so I tried to keep cool. They both work at the local casino and my wife would mention how this girl's boyfriend (26 yrs old) would come in and spend $500-1000 per hand at blackjack. My wife would try to figure out what he did for a living where he could spend that kind of money on a regular basis at the casino. She was told that he is in "legal marijauana" growing in CA but he comes back here to visit 6 months out of the year. I didn't believe it. Well, Friday night this guy was murdered (shot in the head) while sitting in his car on the worst side of town. He has a record of mostly minor crimes, the worst was resisting arrest. Another guy in the car was shot but not killed. The girlfriend has opened a "go fund me" account to help pay for his funeral. Now I left that type of lifestyle years ago and have been sober for over 25 years so my view of this might be slightly skewed by that fact. If you were my wife would you donate? If so how much?