...adds a new band member with zero discussion (and expects us all to be fine with this eff'd up idea) back story: Been playing guitar/vox in a house band for five years. Five piece, Front man/singer/Rhythm, Lead Gtr(me), bass, keys, drums. I go to Cabo for a week with amply notice, come back and the sub that filled in is now a band member. Zero discussion, no notice. Leader puts new player RIGHT NEXT TO ME and he can't play worth a shite. I was (am) pissed, Leader saw this and came over to ask why? I said "we don't need him, he adds no value to the music and I'm not gonna teach him 100+ songs (on stage), consider this my last night." I finished the gig and was packing up my gear . Leader came over again to confirm.... "are you really leaving"... "ahh, yeah, unless you get the posers off the stage, I'm done. I'm sick of train wrecks and want tighter delivery of songs, not a cluster fvck of jamband madness..... see-ya" What say you TGP, why is this all my fault (because I know you think it is) or is this leader on the pipe?